My hero. I still can't believe that you're gone. In my heart I know that you arrived in heaven at a high velocity speed, your arrival trumpeted by a heavenly choir fitting of your big personality. You were, and still are, larger than life. Still, I miss you. I used to think I was an advocate. I used to think I had a voice for AA. You, my friend, were THE voice. The voice of many for AA awareness, Be The Match and a loyal supporter for families affected by something that you defined as a lifetime. I've only been directed by AA for the last 7 years. For you, it was a lifestyle. No one carried themselves with more dignity and grace, all the while being the Wonder Woman you were. I will keep forever our FB chats in which you asked me for advice on how to write a book. Me? What a compliment from the woman who defined inspiration. We talked late into the night once and I just reread it all. You were encouraging ME to write my second book. You would check in with me several times a week to see how I was doing with the book and inevitably, through the world that is now social media, we connected at least once a day. I used to loathe AA. Don't get me wrong, I still do, but I have made peace with it and accept all the wonderful friendships and connections that I have made as a result of AA. One of those friendships was with you. Without AA, I wouldn't have known the larger than life Shahonna Grove. You never complained about your own health and would often ask me how Drew was doing, knowing that we'd just had an appointment. You've taught me more about grace and strength than you'll ever know. I pray for peace and comfort for your family, especially your beautiful Kenna. Your contributions to the AA world are too numerous to count. Your faith, never quit attitude and refusal to give in will inspire AA families for many years. We will all make sure that the one and only Shahonna will never be forgotten. You forged a path in life that is glittering with inspiration and example. You are, and always will be, my hero. Jen
